The Inbetweener: Should banks ask about babies?
I have a friend who has recently been considering returning to the workforce after having her first child. Looking to go back full time, she was interviewed at one firm and was dismayed at the questions asked.
Although it wasn't phrased quite as transparently, the main question was whether or not she was planning to leave prematurely to expand her brood again. I didn't realise asking that was even legal.
Australia will soon launch the Paid Parental Leave Scheme. This is an excellent law for those already in the workforce, but what about women like my friend who are looking to get a new job after having a child?
I have no doubt I am showing impatience in wanting to see change immediately, but it disheartens me to think that women may be overlooked for employment due to a perception that they will leave to "spawn" again.
However, I must admit that I'm also somewhat torn. Although the thought of such discrimination angers me (and I don't want to betray my sisterhood), I have been in a position where a former colleague (who was on a short-term contract) pushed to be made full time, but didn't disclose she was pregnant.
She was eventually made permanent, and after ascertaining that she couldn't be fired, she let her work lapse. I was left to fill the void. It was an ugly situation which nobody knew how to deal with, hence I have some empathy for employers who face such difficult dilemmas.
A question for you...
Which brings me to my own key question: are employers today still hesitant to hire new mothers?
I know from first hand experience that they were in the past. Many moons ago, an old (and I mean really old) colleague of mine told me that the firm never hired women of child-bearing age because the cost of them leaving for long periods was just too high (and clients would become irate because of staffing instability). Is this still the case today?
Again, I must stress for fear of reprisal that I am very glad that we now have a Government-backed Paid Parental Leave Scheme, but what is the real mindset in some areas of the finance sector? Have you or your partner ever been asked similar questions? Have you asked such questions?
Is a woman leaving soon after being hired a real concern for employers out there? And if so, what are the real break-down costs involved to the firm when this happens? What is an acceptable time for a woman to be with a firm before she starts or extends her family, without causing too much stress for her employer and workmates?
Please share your thoughts, but remember, even though this is a topic needing discussion, it is a touchy subject. I therefore take no responsibility for any smug remarks made about a woman's place being in the kitchen!
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