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GUEST COMMENT: Pity the white, non-disabled, heterosexual, middle-aged unemployed man

I have taken the last three years away from working in financial services to look after two children until they both moved to secondary school.

Since trying to get back into the market, I have been contacted by many recruitment agents/consultants. However, when they become aware of my 'career break,' their interest subsides.

Several of them have acknowledged that when a woman takes a career break, it's positive. But when a man takes a career break, it's a major hurdle. Once I've submitted a CV with full dates (I'm 45) I never hear from any recruitment agent/consultants again. Nor do they return my messages or calls.

I feel that I am being discriminated against. In an economic environment where jobs are scarce, any measure that might encourage firms to hire a less qualified woman instead of a better qualified man, will make it even harder for the tiny minority of white, non-disabled, heterosexual, middle aged men returning from a career break to obtain work.

It is hard enough for non-minorities at work (excluded from the Women's Networking Group, the Black Networking Group, the Rainbow networking Group, the Asian Networking Group etc. - I kid you not).

Requiring firms to report only on one dimension of the complex matrix of employee profiles is simplistic and misses the point.

In this context, I think the government's new gender pay audit is misguided. Pandering to the interests of one category of employees is quite simply, wrong.

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  • Og
    Oggie Doggie
    28 June 2010

    Girls, your complete lack of empathy, tact, and helpfulness is what's holding you back, not your ethnic background. Who would want to promote such bitter, resentful people?

    In fact, even if you're black and female and not exactly Miss Universe, you can get ahead if you're qualified and determined, just as Condolesa Rice did. If she could do it, you can too.

    Actually, the original guest columnist made a valid point. Unemployed middle-aged white men can have a really tough time finding work.

    The solution? Get hired straight out of college, and never quit. Otherwise, resign yourself to life-long self-employment - or janitorial work.

  • Du
    Dumbarton Dave
    26 January 2010

    Drink Buckfast- It can cure all ailments.

    Relax- we're all doomed.

    What's the point of worrying

  • Tr
    Truth Hurts
    5 May 2009

    Lol, poor u!! being white is tough these days, maybe its justice for all the pain white people have historically put on other ethnic groups! Time for u to experience life like other ethnic group

  • cr
    crappyComment
    4 May 2009

    white....middle class....male....
    who wouldn't listen to you? me...
    dude...try being an ethnic minority or having a foriegn name...you don't get calls even when there are roles out there.

  • JM
    JM
    4 May 2009

    I am also a white, non-disabled, heterosexual, middle-aged unemployed man but I genuinely do not get the sense that I am being discriminated against in the job search - there just aren't that many jobs out there for anyone, regardless of gender or age. I am sure there is discrimination of all sorts going on out there but a lot of it works in the favour of people like me. There a lot of guys I know on trading desks who would much rather have another white, non-disabled, heterosexual, middle-aged man fill the role because it fits within their own comfort zone.

    Yes, I think it is probably a disadvantage for you re the three-year career break but to be quite honest, that is the price you pay for taking three years out of the market. I did something similar at the time of the tech bubble (for two years) - it was honestly the best thing I ever did - your kids are only young once and it was a wonderful bonding experience. Did it set me back career-wise? Absolutely, yes. I ended going back in as an associate to a bank instead of a VP and earned less than I had done before for a couple of years but I'd still do it again.

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