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ALPHA FEMALE: The crisis might keep female bankers working

A recent article in <a href="https://www.businessweek.com/bschools/content/aug2008/bs20080821_739321.htm" target="_blank"BusinessWeek drew attention to the fact that many female MBAs aren't making it to the top. Why is this? Is there still a glass ceiling? Is the ceiling in fact made of reinforced concrete? Or is it that many women are opting out?

Clearly, there are going to be variations industry by industry, and I won't profess to be an expert on many career paths. From my experience - solely in banking - I feel that many women eventually opt out rather than fight to get to the top. Unsurprisingly, I feel this is even more common for mothers than for women without children.

Female MBAs who go into finance are classic Type A over-achievers (as are many female MBAs more generally). They give 100% to whatever they do and are perfectionists. They want success and they want to achieve that success now. They also generally have husbands who are equally obsessive. At business school, many of these women not only received their MBA but also their MRS. Almost one third of the women in my business-school class married men from business school.

When both partners have a banking lifestyle, achieving a stable home environment is tough, particularly when children are involved. As you progress in seniority through a bank, the hours get more manageable but they are still long. You may not be working 24/7 any more but you are still working 7am to 7pm. It is an unpredictable, deal-driven, client-service business.

Senior executives still receive calls at random hours of the day and night. (My favourite was at 2am, from a client asking if we needed a meeting then or if I thought it could wait until the morning.)

Many banks do have family-friendly policies. I had understanding colleagues. We had free emergency crèche places, good parental leave policies, and a myriad of other things of which I didn't fully take advantage.

With working husbands in the same industry, many female bankers could afford to make choices. Going from two incomes to one was a challenge, but possible. In theory, the man could have opted out. But, in reality, this was rare.

The current downturn and the flood of employees out of the market has changed all this. With jobs in financial services suddenly looking a lot less stable and lucrative, giving one up to spend time at home may start to seem a luxury.

On one level, this is a shame - stable families and children benefit enormously from having one parent at home. But on another level, it could increase the proportion of senior women in an industry which desperately needs them.

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AUTHORAnneke deBoer Insider Comment
  • An
    Anon.
    26 November 2008

    I can speak as someone who started out being her usual kind and empathic self, doing just as good a job as the competitive men in her team, and yet I was told by a staffer I wasn't "aggressive" enough. To add insult to the schizophrenia, more than once I overheard the same staffer calling the more aggressive women at the bank *itches.

    So I ask: which is it? Do you want kind-unthreatening-empathic and will you respect that or do you only respect women you can't accuse of using their "charmes" (sic)? Do you care to listen if I tell you that I don't want to care about what it is you think, as it ought to make no difference in my personal career progress? I'm there to work. I'm not there to entertain men and fit into their idea of how a woman should act, as it's pointless trying to figure it out anyway. The rules and benchmarks change depending on the man and his hormones and how close the layoffs are.

    And what's this thing about men comparing women bankers to their sisters (personal exp.) or mothers? The problem is clearly not us. We women are not going around comparing you to our brothers and fathers. We're just doing our jobs. Infuriating. Rant over, thank you.

  • Ol
    Oldboy
    23 November 2008

    nice effort johnny...but as long as there is profit to be made from making something for $1 and selling it for $2 all those (negative) traits we have been talking about will come to the forefront.

  • Jo
    Johnny
    22 November 2008

    Does anyone really believe that men and women are hugely different..? I believe that men and women are ultimately pretty similar - women are greedy, competitive, selfish, unmotherly; Men are loving, nagging, selfless and nurturing... And vice versa. We're all just humans..? Are we (men) jealous of women being more powerful than us?

    Sometimes, women don't want to be mothers. Sometimes men don't want to be bankers... In short, what i'm trying to say is that the problem is people's perceptions of what it is to be male and female and also what it is to be a banker.

    On the other hand, since only women can have children, surely there is a real glass ceiling...? The chairman of a PE fund told me two years ago that he'd never hire women because they ran off, had children and were therefore not commited enough. I can see his logic but I think he's illustrated what people mean by glass ceiling. These institutions do not facilitate women working and being mothers.

    It's possible and important for women and men to share and be equal in the social, political and economic power in a civilised, sophisticated society, don't you think?

  • Mi
    Mikey
    21 November 2008

    No Laydee, that's my point, men have the monopoly on those attributes i believe and women merely ape their behaviour to try and get ahead which rarely works.

    Lets make the world a better place eh? "all together now "We are the world..."

  • La
    Laydee
    21 November 2008

    Hi Mikey,

    Yes, women can cooperate, empathise, and show foresight, where appropriate. However, women are also able to be competitive, greedy and proud. I agree that the first set of skills are preferable, but they are not always appropriate for a workplace dominated by the latter. If male colleagues are playing dirty, women need to play dirty too - and not be castigated as she-males because of it.

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